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Yes and No by C-Allagash Yes and No by C-Allagash
This was created to be my cover photo on Facebbok.
Don't believe me?
You can see it here:
[link]

Sometimes I hear, because I'm bi, that my case "is not so serious", or that I am half gay.

Half my ass.

I've never felt a half attraction, a half feeling, a half love.
I've never loved a half person.

Whether a choose a boy or a girl, it does not change what I am and what I've ever been.... GAY! 100% GAY.

Too many questions and comments.
Some answers are avaiable in my journal entry
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NitorisAss Featured By Owner Dec 28, 2013  Hobbyist General Artist
This is awesome. Couldn't agree more. I love who I am and wouldn't change it for the world <3
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MInecraftianGuy3 Featured By Owner Jun 16, 2013
Yay! SOMEBODY WHO UNDERESTANDSE! :D
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9FALLINGSHADOWS Featured By Owner Nov 5, 2012  Student Artist
damn right sister!!
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GalacticKitten Featured By Owner Sep 8, 2012
I just want to say that I actually, in a way, envy bisexuals. You don't have as many limitations on love or attraction. A friend of mine has had serious relationships with both men and women, and I think it's awesome that she can love one gender the same as another. So, as someone else said, "rock on!" :)
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C-Allagash Featured By Owner Sep 9, 2012
Honestly?
I kind of envy lesbians.

You know, we don't choose... but if I could have chosen, I would have chosen to be lesbian.
I don't understand straight relationships.
Other than to procreate, why would you chose to be with someone that has nothing to do with you, that can't understand you, that's the complete opposite?
I'm not pansexual, I am bisexual, then I have preferences.
I've ever felt much more attracted for girls, either about personality, empathy, even physical attraction.

Many times, while with a guy, I asked myself "Why I'm doing it?"
I didn't believe that love between straight people was possible, and my relationships were based in everything but feelings.
I was plastic, they were plastic, and I didn't care.
I loved a girl, she didn't want anything with me... I dated many guys who never meant anything.
And I envyed terribly all the girls that had the relationship I dreamed to have and that I coudln't.

But love is a weird thing.
Now, I'am ok, with a person that I love and who loves me.

I think love is what matters.
If you can love and be loved, this is what is important.
You can date many people, boys and girls, and it doesn't mean it has any importance, really.
Man or woman, there's always THAT person, you know?
You date 100000000000000000000000000000000, but there'll be ONE that really... change your life, your heart, yourself.
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ShadowBunnyMari Featured By Owner Aug 13, 2012  Hobbyist General Artist
I'm not gay, but I like this. I encourage gay relationships. But it's too bad there are so many homophobics. >.>
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C-Allagash Featured By Owner Aug 13, 2012
AYe, there are MANY.

Not only me, but other deviants who commented on this deviation had problems.
There was a homophic guy harassing them and me.
Now, fortunately his account is no longer active.
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ShadowBunnyMari Featured By Owner Aug 15, 2012  Hobbyist General Artist
Wow, that really sucks. It's a good thing he's no longer active. :P
Besides, should sexual orientation matter? What should matter is the choices you make.
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debidebdebdeb Featured By Owner Aug 5, 2012
Funny how some people are still to cowardly to come out of the closet. Had a best friend like that. She has to o online and acts like she is gay and proud, but to everyone who knows her, she is littl miss heterosexual. Hid it from the "soulmate" and husband. Sad. She hides behind fake profiles. Had affairs with women behind his back. All she had to do was tell him the truth. He would have accepted her for who she is. Now, all she is,is a liar and cheater,and coward,and she lost him as a friend forever
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C-Allagash Featured By Owner Aug 5, 2012
Yes, considering that coming out of the closet, some people can stop talking to you, your family can turn against you, the work can become a hostile ambiance, you may be forbidden to go to the church, be scolded when you to to school/college, be harassed simply when walking in the street....

How can someone be so coward to care about those trifles?
Such a cowardice!

Reading your description, the problem is not exactly that your friend is homosexual, but that she feels attraction for people other than her husband.

They are women. But they could be men. The problem is not really her sexuality, but fidelity.
Do you really think his husband would accept and understand something as: "I feel needs you can't satisfy, and I need to cheat on you"?

Cheating her husband may not be right, but honestly, it's a problem between her and her husband, and I don't think you have anything to do it.
Neither have I that, although I don't even know her, I'm aware of her private life.
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KwijiboJD Featured By Owner Aug 4, 2012  Professional Traditional Artist
Gay, straight, bi... They are all labels misused by fear. Like Pansexuals, I prefer to think we love who we love. 100% Esther guy, girl, or both. You aren't a half anything, C. Don't change. Love the piece BTW.
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insilverscript Featured By Owner Aug 3, 2012
I love this so f-ing much. I actually just posted this on my facebook wall with a note finally telling everyone I'm bi. It's not quite a secret, but not a whole lot of people know (until now :) .) Thanks for posting this and inspiring me to finally share it.
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C-Allagash Featured By Owner Aug 4, 2012
Oh, really?

This image was created especially to be my cover photo on Facebbok.
Some friends don't accept my sexuality, it was my way to express that if they want to be my friends, they have to accept it because I won't hide what I am... and if they're not satisfied, well, they can unfriend.

The deviation had a watermark, but after reading your comment, I took it off... then everybody who wants can use if freely, on facebook or whatever.
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LovelessKoi Featured By Owner Aug 3, 2012  Student General Artist
I agree with you. I'm pansexual and nobody takes me seriously because I have a boyfriend. I have felt the pains of bigotry and have been gay-bashed by police. Bullshit our case isn't as serious. So hell yeah, thank you for addressing that.
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EverstoneLove Featured By Owner Aug 3, 2012   General Artist
You go girl. Show em'.
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1SH0T Featured By Owner Aug 3, 2012  Hobbyist Digital Artist
I'm lesbian and kind not proud of it... \:
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CuryPotato Featured By Owner Aug 3, 2012  Student General Artist
it's okay, sometimes it's just harder to accept who you are. sometimes pride is more difficult to come by.

i am proud lesbian though.
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1SH0T Featured By Owner Aug 4, 2012  Hobbyist Digital Artist
I've been like this for 2 years ff ..
My family, my friends and others ignore me it makes me feel really bad .. Falling in depression and stuff... e-e
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JamestheDrow Featured By Owner Aug 6, 2012  Hobbyist Digital Artist
you have all of us here love and i know how you feel when i discovered i was gay/pansexual i started cutting and attempted suicide all in one year. as cliche as it is even though my parents try to say im sinning and not following the bible..it does get better..im almost 18 i dont feel bad about who i am now 3 or so years late.does that mean i dont scared?no does that mean i dont get depressed ?no but i realize that..while they're clinging to there beliefs i will be gone and they will have to deal with there beliefs weither they want to accept there daughter or not while im living my life..i hope that helps a bit *hug* if you ever feel bad you can talk to me if it helps!i may not know you personally but im always willing to listen
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1SH0T Featured By Owner Aug 6, 2012  Hobbyist Digital Artist
aw thank you <3
But seriously, I wish this never happened to me.
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JamestheDrow Featured By Owner Aug 6, 2012  Hobbyist Digital Artist
trust me i know the feeling but you cant change it and living in the closet is just as bad if not more so then being out...trust me ive tried..and someone always finds out
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CuryPotato Featured By Owner Aug 4, 2012  Student General Artist
im depressed too. got no one.
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9FALLINGSHADOWS Featured By Owner Nov 5, 2012  Student Artist
*hugs*
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CuryPotato Featured By Owner Nov 5, 2012  Student General Artist
:hug:
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9FALLINGSHADOWS Featured By Owner Nov 5, 2012  Student Artist
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CuryPotato Featured By Owner Nov 5, 2012  Student General Artist
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JamestheDrow Featured By Owner Aug 6, 2012  Hobbyist Digital Artist
*hug*
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1SH0T Featured By Owner Aug 4, 2012  Hobbyist Digital Artist
that sucks. \:
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Animeprincess1990 Featured By Owner Aug 3, 2012  Hobbyist Artist
And I agree. I used to be Bi, but i changed as my attraction for girls grew stronger.
sometimes its hard being discriminated against by both sides of the "fight" but together we can make it. We're all strong together! :D
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blackstrike Featured By Owner Aug 3, 2012  Professional Photographer
As my friend used to say "Being Bi means twice the fun on Saturday night!" :)

Have fun darling and enjoy your life!
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C-Allagash Featured By Owner Aug 3, 2012
Hehehe, everyone considers this part... people usually forget that being bi also means to be discrimated by homosexuals AND straight people. ;)

But I really thanks you for your nice words.
I hope you enjoy your life too! :D
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ShortFocus Featured By Owner Aug 3, 2012  Student Photographer
I actually envy Bi's. They can just pick and choose. The entire world IS A BUFFET! (I know they just can't pick and choose, but I mean... Sex is a not a limit for them! As it is for me as a lesbian) :D
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C-Allagash Featured By Owner Aug 3, 2012
Hahahahahahah, that's what everybody says....
Unfortutally many people care, you know?

I mean, some guys feel... the word I heard was "disgust" of a girl who dates other girls.
It happens to the girls too. I heard once "What if you cheat me with.... a boy! Yuck!!!"

Let's say that's more or less like being a buffet when you are in adiet... but the other way round ;)
:rofl:

Thanks for your comment.
C'mon, lesbian is cool too!
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ShortFocus Featured By Owner Aug 3, 2012  Student Photographer
To say it nicely, I don't give a shit about what other people think about my sexuality. They're just jealous I get more than them :P
Nah to be serious, if I had a bisexual girlfriend and she cheated on me, I wouldn't give a damn about what sex it was with. Cheating in my world is just not okay.

Hell yeah, lesbo-power :D
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AislingPeryton Featured By Owner Aug 3, 2012  Hobbyist General Artist
I consider myself pansexual, gender doesn't even matter to us. We look past gender, to us, defining by gender is judging by appearance. I have a question for you, do you think that you judge by appearance, or that gender matters? What if you met a really girly guy? I mean, there are differences, but the most prominent one is what's in their pants so to speak XD. I was just wondering what you think about the subject. o3o
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ShortFocus Featured By Owner Aug 3, 2012  Student Photographer
Well... If there's something hanging, I aint hanging around. Or something. xD
No I am defiantly judging by gender. I just can't do guys, they don't interest me sexually so to say.
I did consider myself bisexual once, because I just couldn't face, I was gay. Back then I only went after long haired guys. I don't know, the girly guys doesn't do any good for me, since I am kinda masculine. I love beer and football, more than I like romance and drinks.
Okay gonna stop writing now xD
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TheObjection Featured By Owner Aug 3, 2012  Hobbyist Digital Artist
I'm not gay, but I think you can't say it better :)
and I don't understand why so many people are against gay people -_-" that's just stupid
people should be more tolerant!
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Amaris123 Featured By Owner Aug 2, 2012  Hobbyist General Artist
Couldn't have said it better myself! I am also bi, I wouldn't change for anything at all. :)
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HollyEmpire00 Featured By Owner Aug 2, 2012  Hobbyist General Artist
Hmm...I agree totally; my only question is;

Does this count if you're Pansexual? I don't think of any differences between genders; when I'm going to go look for someone to go out with or someone to spend the rest of my life with, I'm not going to put any prejudices towards my choices.

No gender defiance, no nothing.

It's different from being Bi...but I suppose it must count, right?
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Shadow-Chippie Featured By Owner Aug 3, 2012  Hobbyist General Artist
I say bi but pansexual means the body means nothing it's the person you fall in love with, if this helps? ^^;
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HollyEmpire00 Featured By Owner Aug 4, 2012  Hobbyist General Artist
Yeah, I was just saying...it's a beautiful saying though. I totally agree. Thank you!
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Shadow-Chippie Featured By Owner Aug 4, 2012  Hobbyist General Artist
Welcome :3
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Desuke-Love Featured By Owner Aug 2, 2012  Student Writer
How can one be half gay? Someone said this to a friend of mine once.
'You're only half gay!'
'What's the other half? Velveteen fricken rabbit?'
It was rather amusing
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C-Allagash Featured By Owner Aug 3, 2012
:rofl:

Thanks for sharing this, I'll use it next time.
Copyrights to your friend, of corse ;)
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Desuke-Love Featured By Owner Aug 4, 2012  Student Writer
Haha no problem XD I'll tell him
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Miguel2010 Featured By Owner Aug 2, 2012  Professional Photographer
Love your self-assuredness and…oops!…straightforwardness… Love it love it love it!
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TaMarchingTomahawk Featured By Owner Aug 2, 2012  Student General Artist
:) Love this! So agree :D
I'm bi as well but love just as fully
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Cerise-XIII Featured By Owner Aug 2, 2012  Hobbyist Writer
Thanks much for this. Now I can direct morons here so maybe a picture will help them understand me.
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MandyMullins2 Featured By Owner Aug 2, 2012
:highfive:
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